Profile for Gay MILITARY friends in Ft Lauderdale, Florida (FL)

LEONTES is a:
Gay man who is currently single and looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a gay military guy

My Vitals:
Age: 22 , Height: 5'09" 175cm , Weight: 150lbs 68kg , Body Type: Athletic
Ethnicity: Caucasian-White

Where I Live:
Ft Lauderdale, Florida (FL) USA

MILITARY listing:
To work with men in the military, a therapist must understand male psychology. Additionally, a therapist must understand and give due attention to the concept of “honor,” that is so central to the psychology of the military. As most therapists know, in therapy, virtue can be as much of an impediment as a vice. This is especially true of honor. One of the main obstacles that the concept of honor presents in therapy is that many military men believe that because of their military commitments, they should be given a pass when it comes to relationship issues with family and children. With a professional military man, neglect and mistreatment in the name of duty may endure for 20 or more years, the span of time in which children grow to adulthood with an absent and emotionally self-contained father. Everyone loses. The wife doesn’t have a husband; the children don’t have a father; and the man feels misunderstood, neglected, and somewhat martyred. Additional challenges to working with military men have to do with absences and frequent moves. Children and wives must adjust to a man being away for long periods. The son of a career Naval Officer told me that it took about a month each way, his father leaving and returning, to make the adjustment. The frequent moves work against deep and lasting attachments to friends and community. The passion for honor and conformity to tradition so typical of military men are at odds with the necessities of therapy for openness and critical examination of a client’s assumptions about life. Wives and children can be seen as support services for the military mission instead of people who have their own needs, values, and life missions. The demands of wives and children can be seen as interfering with the military man’s duty. As a former Marine said, “if the Marines wanted you to have a wife, they would have issued you1.” A classic case of military single-mindedness is revealed quite dramatically in Pat Conroy’s novel and the movie, “The Great Santini.”
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